TOW a few anecdotes
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As a new year begins, one’s tempted to do something different. So one’s decided to start the new year with some anecdotes.
1. Some people collect stamps and some collect footwear. I collect headgear. Or at least I think so, if possessing 12 hats is any indication. My oldest is a (West) McLaren Mercedes team hat that I picked up at a store off Elliots Beach in Chennai before I moved to Ohio in ‘01. My latest acquisition is an official (Vodafone) McLaren Mercedes hat (with Lewis Hamilton’s signature sewn on to it) , this time procured from the Team McLaren store (thanks Yakkow, for making the calls!). Another prized possession is a Nike Team India hat (to go with my Team India practice jersey) that some friend picked up at Macy’s a few months ago.

2. MTR makes this rocking idly mix. Thanks to MTR, I have had idlies for dinner like 3 days in a row now. Every day I find that I have some batter left over (enough for a couple of idlies) and so I add some more the next day thinking that it will be enough for the half a dozen small idlies I eat. And every day I end up with left over batter. I think this is going to continue till I run out of the idly mix. But I am not complaining at all. Mom makes the perfect molaga podi and she has surpassed herself with the batch I have now. She might live in Chennai while I am here, but like I mentioned to someone the other day, “mere paas maa hai, by proxy”!
3. I don’t listen to Tamil soundtracks anymore. Sad, but true. For some reason, Tamil soundtracks seem to be failing to excite me anymore, barring one or two albums here and there from Rahman and sometimes from Yuvan Shankar Raja. I yearn for the Ilayaraja of yore and Yuvan Shankar Raja is at best bearable, unless he is crowing in his off key voice. The beauty of Ilayaraja and his voice was that he knew when to sing and when to stay away from the mic. With Yuvan, either people around him are feeding his ego or he is deaf.
4. I have no such complaints when it comes to Hindi soundtracks. In spite of my less than perfect Hindi, I seem to be listening to more and more Hindi soundtracks and if you were to ask me about my 10 ten songs from ‘07, Hindi tracks would dominate. And based on the number times these songs went on continuous loop on my mp3 player last year, In Dino (Life in a Metro), Aakhri Alvida (Shootout at Lokhandwala) and Dhundla jo sama bandha (Manorama Six Feet Under) will be in the top three definitely.
5. Speaking of Hindi soundtracks, am currently listening to Rahman’s latest - Jodha Akbar. And hearing Sonu Nigam sing In lamhon ke daaman mein, I wonder how history would remember him. Well, personally speaking, I think after his time is done, he would rank up there among the greats. But then, I’m no expert. When I was in high school, for a time I believed that PB Srinivas sang Gunguna Rahe Hain Bhawre. Don’t ask! But in any case, considering the number of Sony Nigam numbers that rank among my personal favorites, he ranks up there in my personal list. And that is enough. Life goes on.
6. A couple of months ago, I got promoted at work. Well, not really. It’s a promotion by name and I still do what I used to do, which is not much. I did get a decent raise and I guess that makes it worth it. But this also means that I will be travelling more often than i did during the first two years that I spent in this job.
7. And the travel started even before I got promoted. In November and December, I spent close to 4 weeks in total out of Jersey in Portland (OR) and in Cleveland (OH) on some difficult client installs. Twelve hour workdays and infrequent meals were the norm so much that after returning back to Jersey, I have totally lost interest in cooking these past two three weeks. I should get back into the same groove back again.
8. Saturday before last, DoZ and I did a movie marathon. Both of our hectic work schedules in the past couple of months had meant that we had missed quite a few serious movies and we decided to catch up. Starting with a show at 10:30 am, we watched 4 movies one after the other. Three of the four movies will definitely get Oscar nods. Johnny Depp’s Sweeny Todd surprised us by being a slasher musical, a new genre maybe. The Diablo Cody screenplay Juno is genuinely funny. And even though Kite Runner was melodramatic, it was not the slowest of the lot. That honor goes to There will be blood. But three out of four movies is a good hit rate anyways and one has only DoZ to thank, for choosing the movies.
9. I have spent the last two years in New Jersey. When I first moved to Jersey, for the first couple of weeks, I stayed with S and his roomies, till I moved into my own apartment (with a roomie). And these are the only new friends I have made here in Jersey in the real world. There have been a few friends I have made via this blog and while I did meet some of these people in real life too, I miss university life and the security blanket of desis that it provided.
10. This is also the first year since ‘01 (when I moved to the US) that I have continued on and stayed in the same apartment at the end of the year. At Athens, the roommates and I had to move for different reasons every year. The first year, the tiring walk up a hill made us move once the lease was up. End of second year, the university decided to the raze the old apartment complex. And I moved at the end of the third. I spent a few months in Illinois and Delware and moved to Jersey in ‘05. I moved into this apartment in November ‘06. This second floor apartment is huge, has a nice balcony facing the road and is generally accessible. The rent’s about the cheapest in the area.
(Amma, this is about the time you stop reading this post. I am going to talk about my neighbors and you better close this browser window. Don’t worry, my neighbors are really nice people.)
12. Speaking of neighbors, a lesbian couple lie below me every night. I mean, my bedroom is right above theirs. And in case you are wondering how I know - when they do it, they are LOUD, both of them. Like they were last night. And to think that soon after I first moved in, I was asked by one of them to turn down the volume on my TV after 10pm since she was a high school teacher. May be they wanted to be heard and my TV was drowning their soundtrack. Amma, in case you are still reading, don’t worry. I don’t speak to them. I don’t even speak to any women. Podhuma?
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Lalita http://lalitalarking.blogspot.com
January 22nd, 2008 at 4:20 amLOL To think I spent three hours recalling a song in its full glory lying in sickbed. But it was worth it, unlike songs these days.
Lekhni http://lekhni.wordpress.com
January 22nd, 2008 at 8:21 amI am addicted to MTR’s Rava idlis. The plain idlis, I hardly ever make..
maxdavinci http://maxdavinci.wordpress.com
January 22nd, 2008 at 9:43 amLoved the last line! terrific…
speaking of jodha-akbar, ‘in lamho’ is by far the best in the otherwsise okayish album.
coming to your hats and neighbors, I envy you!
Me
January 22nd, 2008 at 9:59 am..make sure you don’t take pon aathukaara ku kudukara photo with your head gear on…they might think you are balding…:p
WA
January 22nd, 2008 at 11:32 amAnd to think that you could have had that hat for free!
DNA
January 22nd, 2008 at 12:42 pmWhy nobody focussing on 12? Oh well…
BTW, did you see “No country for old men”? IMO, best of the year.
superstarksa http://superstarksa.com
January 22nd, 2008 at 7:54 pmDna: All nallavanga. Nee kapemaari! Btw, laang time no see. Marriage made you a better man-a? And no, Old Country, not yet. Perhaps this weekend. Michael Clayton too.
WA: You know naan nallavan. How will I do something like that.
Me: You adangu di. We know all that. Besides I have stupendous hair, which is what my regular barber/haircutter told me yesterday.
Max: Nothing ever happens here that should make you envious. Dont worry! And yes, Inhi Lamhon Mein is the best song in the album. But I have a soft corner for any song that Rahman sings. So Khwaja iss good too.
Lekhni: The rava idly mix, I tried once. Did not come out to well. In contrast, the plain idlies have come out well every single time I have tried so far. So I shall stick to the plain ones for now.
Missus Em: But it was worth it, unlike songs these days.
Don’t worry, we will have you up to speed soon.
I guess you should know where to look
Pri http://bengloorgirlindenver.blogspot.com/
January 22nd, 2008 at 10:56 pmyou got a team india cat at macys? seriously?? and i keep making family members send me random cricket memorabilia from india!!
Pri http://bengloorgirlindenver.blogspot.com/
January 22nd, 2008 at 10:57 pmerr i meant to type hat of course. clearly i haven’t gotten over the perth win yet.
superstarksa http://superstarksa.com
January 23rd, 2008 at 11:11 amPri: When I was in India last Jan after like 4 years, I found that the Nike store sells Indian team gear. A tad overpriced for India (at least the India that I used to live in pre-2001), if you ask me, but convert it into USD, it worked fine. Anyways, I picked up a Team India practice tee (you know the blue ones that the support staff etc. wear). Then early in the summer, I got a frantic call from a shopaholic friend of mine who was at a macy’s in Delaware and she said that she had found Team India gear there (on sale!!!!). So she picked up a baseball hat for dirt cheap! That’s the one you see on that pic.
Patrix http://ipatrix.com
January 23rd, 2008 at 2:42 pmAh! Your headgear collection reminds me of a similar collection by my brother since his days in Europe. All his caps hung on our curtain rail sans the curtain, of course. He has moved on since then and no caps can be seen now.
Lekhni http://lekhni.wordpress.com
January 29th, 2008 at 12:08 pmHey, you are tagged. This one should rate as the easiest tag of all.
Me
January 31st, 2008 at 2:21 pmanantha do you need my help to do the tag?
superstarksa http://superstarksa.com
January 31st, 2008 at 3:33 pmMe: No thanks machi. Nee en disturb aara? Nee paatukku AVP oda ukkandhu veg. puff saapudu. Enga tag a naanga paakarom
Lekhni: Thanks for the tag. As the old Latin saying goes, one must never tickle a sleeping dragon. But nevertheless, you have. Will post in a couple of days.
Patrix: He has moved on since then
Moved on meaning? Has he been forced by the SO to do so? Or has he moved moved to his own living quarters from where your parents live? Pray tell. I have to think about where I am heading!
Me
January 31st, 2008 at 3:55 pmJust thought of doing some social service…
guruprasad http://guruprasad.blogspot.com
February 1st, 2008 at 3:04 amyou’ve been tagged. pls drop into my blog and check it out.
guruprasad http://guruprasad.blogspot.com
February 4th, 2008 at 7:39 amhi anantha :
you are tagged! i am an absolute stranger! come over and check it out at guruprasad.blogspot.com
guru
Karthik http://uberdesi.com
February 6th, 2008 at 3:39 pmMachan, check my flickr tomorrow and I hope you have the hat rack to organize this. I stated my collection a few years ago, randomly pick up caps as I see them.
And you do not talk to vimen, right… Aunty, sutha poi.
jillumadrasi http://jillumadras.blogspot.com
February 6th, 2008 at 4:06 pmseri OK
Kamini http://kaminidandapani.typepad.com
February 8th, 2008 at 7:33 amNice post. Congratulations on the promotion. And I know exactly what you mean by the security blanket of university life. If your mom is reading your blog, you can bet that she is frantically looking around for a bride for you!! Eating MTR idlies night after night? Lonely? Lesbian neighbors? Watch out!
Kamini.
superstarksa http://superstarksa.com
February 10th, 2008 at 2:16 pmKamini: Thanks. I know my mom reads from time to time and in the two weeks since this post has been up, I haven’t heard any inquiries from her. So I think she did not read this one. So far, so good.
Jillu: Inna ba?
Karthik: I am nice tamil baaiy. And nice tamil baaiys dont talk to vimen. As the vimen and I am sure they will agree.
I think we have start being bad baaiys.
Guruprasad: Thanks for the comment. I just finished putting up another post and your tag seems a tag too difficult for lazy old me. I hope you won’t mind if I excuse myself.
Me: Public service starts from home. Go and help AVP with household chores.
ela http://www.ela-royallife.blogspot.com
February 15th, 2008 at 8:59 amyour 12th recollection reminded me of a night i spent in a youth hostel in Roma. they were behind my bed in the row and i was confused in the middle of night to hear giggles and to see 4 feet instead of universally accepted 2 for each individual in that bed… In the morning got the sighting and sounds conformed by my Serbian friend who was in the bed across me and for the 2nd night we tried to roam around as long as we could giving the two lover girls enough time to enjoy!